QUICK STATS
LOOKS: 5 – 9
ONS: 50% – 100%
LTR: Low desirability
Who is The Slut?
The Slut is well-versed in the art of seduction and sex. She has done the dance many times before and has years of experience behind her. Because of this, the Slut is usually a bit older than the other girls on the list. She is usually around 25 to 35 years old and already has established hunting grounds. The Slut usually looks younger than her age because she has finely honed and perfected the science of makeup, pushup bras, and form-fitting clothes. She also probably spends a lot of time at the gym in order to stay on the easy sex express for as long as possible.
If you’re out looking to get laid with no strings attached, the Slut is exactly who you want. Many Attention Whores and Alcoholics fall into this category, but there are some key differences that will help you find exactly the right one. Attention Whores almost always go out in search for attention, which often comes in a sexual form, but a lot of times they’re just looking for the validation of having guys hit on them and may end up going home alone. Alcoholics are more into the search for booze and would rather get blackout drunk even if that means they can’t find someone to hook up with. The Slut comes in many different flavors, but will almost never turn down dick.
The Slut’s natural state of being is one of both attention whoring and actual whoring. Despite this, many of these girls still have a typical female shaming defense and may not outwardly express their complete lack of sexual inhibitions, especially on first meetings.
There are a few tells that will give away the Slut, such as unnatural hair color and excessive tattoos, but many of these are less common in Korea than in the western world. A lot of times the Slut is confused with the Attention Whore, and while they do have a lot of similarities in their behaviors, as a rectangle isn’t always a square, the Slut isn’t always an Attention Whore.
Oftentimes the Slut will hide away her natural proclivities with a veneer of acting like the Prude. This is a defense mechanism to throw other girls off her scent, but a practiced player can easily see through this one. Once they start to near 30, these girls will often try to reform themselves and become a Husband Hunter in order to find a sucker willing to lock down damaged goods. With these natural camouflage techniques, The Slut can blend in with other girls and not draw too much attention. If you’re out looking for her, the key will be spotting the tells before another guy does and swoops her up.
One easy way to tell the Slut apart from other girls is the language she uses and the things she talks about. If she swears a lot or talks about masculine topics like a man, chances are good you’ve found her. Korean women are very socially conservative about topics like sex and drugs, so if she seems comfortable and able to talk about things like that without getting shy and embarrassed then she’s probably done more of them than she’s letting on at the moment.
As you’re chatting up the girl, it’s common knowledge that including physical contact is key to escalating the interaction. Some Korean girls will be noticeably uncomfortable with it at the beginning, and a lot of them will giggle and maybe reciprocate back about half as much. If she seems into the touching more than most girls, and especially if she reciprocates equally or more, then you’ve found a winner.
Another small but important detail that may help you identify her is how she talks about her ex-boyfriends. Most Korean girls will avoid the topic altogether, and some might mention one if it fits a particular topic or question. The Slut is much more likely to use a plural in this situation, talking about more than one ex, which at the very least tells you that she’s banged multiple people and doesn’t care who knows it. This may seem like a very small and insignificant fact, but Korean girls are very conscious of how much information they reveal and a slip like this, whether intentional or Freudian, gives a good deal of information about her attitude toward sex and dating.
As with all things in the world, especially in the realm of dating, practice and familiarity make you better and more comfortable with the action. If she seems just a little too good at the dating and escalation dance, you can move forward safely because you’ve found a real freak.
Keys to sealing the deal
There are two key components to sealing the deal with the Slut. The first is spotting her and choosing the right target. This will be relatively easy in some venues, but may be tougher in more low-key situations. The second part is having a very confident and sexualized style.
The Slut has been conditioned over years of being pumped and dumped that her key asset is her sexual nature. This is true all around the world, but in Korea it’s a relatively rare character trait for girls to express in public. With this in mind, the best way to seal the deal with this type of girl is to do just that: go for it.
Quickly escalate the conversation and physical touching to make them much more sexual in nature. With the Slut, more is always better. She won’t shy away from your advances, and sometimes will even make them herself. Remain strong and confident throughout the interaction, leading the way but with room for her to tango as well. If she wants you to do something specific, she won’t have any qualms with letting you know so you can both have a good time.
Where to find her
The Slut can be found almost anywhere with an abundance of men to choose from. Clubs and bars in a downtown area are a very safe bet. Online dating sites also tend to have a disproportionate number of Sluts. You’ll almost never find the Slut in places like bookstores and coffee shops, as there isn’t as much chance for socializing and hunting.
The best bet to meet and succeed with her is to find a place that you can make your own. Wherever you live in Korea, there will be a social place that you feel most comfortable and loose. For me, this has proven to be two specific bars in the Hongdae area in Seoul. When you are comfortable in a place, not only will you run your best game, but you’ll also be the life of the party and immediately attractive to a girl that is looking for a good time.
If you think you’ve spotted a Slut in the wild, direct approaches that are high on physical contact will work much better than indirect ones. This is why clubs often work well for finding the Slut, but if club game isn’t your style then it’s a bad choice unless you just want practice. The beauty of these girls is that they can be found almost anywhere, so whatever venue helps you be your most dominant and confident self is the proper place to find the Slut.
Pros and cons
The Slut usually has only one really good thing going for her: great, easy sex. There’s a very high probability of hooking up the first night, and the sex will be better than what you’ll have with most other Korean girls. For this reason alone, it may be worth keeping her around for a little while, but never forget that she is not relationship material.
The Slut has no sense of loyalty and has probably lost the ability to bond with a partner through sex through overexposure and desensitization. Without that natural bond, it is safe to assume that she will cheat on you sooner rather than later.
Depending on what variety of Slut you have found, she may try to convince you that she is a faithful and loyal partner. She may even seem very well-intentioned and true, but the old adage always proves correct: You can’t turn a ho into a housewife.
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