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How to Improve Your Conversations with Women

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What’s the ultimate fantasy goal of most men when they start learning about game and pickup?

Let’s be honest with ourselves here.

Most men want to be able to walk up to a hot girl and just say, “Hey I think you’re hot. My place or yours?” and then she comes with you for some great no strings attached sex. Maybe as a cherry on top she poses with you for a picture in your bed that you can show off to your friends later and brag.

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The Importance of Momentum

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About a week ago, I went out to Hongdae with a couple of my guy friends from my neighborhood.  These particular friends of mine aren’t very interested or good at talking to women, so it was mostly a day of us hanging out as guys and having a couple of beers.  By the time we got to Hongdae, it was about 11pm.  Perfect, I thought.  I walked into the first bar, and I couldn’t have been more turned off.  Everything just seemed very banal and uninteresting.  None of the girls were grabbing my attention.  I tried to talk to a couple of them only to be completely blown out, and I just shrugged it off and left.  My buddy was laughing at me for acting old and grumpy, and I was getting the results to show for that attitude.

A little while later, we met up with my buddy’s girlfriend and her two friends.  I immediately started talking with the friends, but now instead of a busy bar or club, I was in a low-key outdoor setting.  I was just meeting new people and having a basic chat, and all the sudden it was back on.  From that point on, my presence, style, and game only improved until I wound up one-nighting with a flight attendant.

What was the difference between the first half of the night and the second?

Momentum. [Read more…] about The Importance of Momentum

You Will Always Be a Foreigner

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The other day, I briefly touched on this subject while writing about commitment with Korean girls, but I wanted to expand on this subject more for the sake of people who don’t live here.

One thing that is easy to overlook before you come here, but incredibly hard to forget while you’re in Korea is that you will always be a foreigner.  You will always be an outsider.  Koreans will never truly accept you as one of their own, no matter how long you’re here. [Read more…] about You Will Always Be a Foreigner

Never Stop Spinning Plates

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Recently while talking to my friend Stallion, I asked him about one of his girls that I had met a couple of weeks before.  He looked confused for a minute, then said, “Oh her?  Yeah we’re finished.”  Then we both laughed a bit, clinked our beers, and started talking about her new replacement in his rotation.

This got me thinking about my other friend Shooter and what was different about these two.  Both are young and good with women.  Both have solid game and a decent understanding of the female mind, but they had completely different reactions when things ended with a girl.  I realized that it was because while Shooter had more than one girl going at a time, he let them stagnate and he made the mistake of getting too attached.  Stallion had the right idea.

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Do Not Invest in Korean Women

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Recently one of my close friends in Korea, Shooter, decided to leave the country after a couple of years here.  He loved it here, he had a great job and a ton of friends, and never had any trouble getting attention from women when he went out.  So why did he decide to leave?  Why did he decide to go back to being jobless in the states living with his parents?

Because of a breakup. [Read more…] about Do Not Invest in Korean Women