March 2020

QUICK STATS

LOOKS: 6-9 (with makeup)

ONS: 50% – 75%

LTR: Low to High desirability

Who is The Attention Whore?

The Attention Whore is the girl you see online when you look up clubs in Korea online. She’s on a first name basis with the doormen and bartenders at the most exclusive clubs, and she’s out at least every Friday and Saturday night. She is easily confused with The Alcoholic or The Slut because of her visibility in drinking establishments as well as her usually provocative sense of style. The big difference between them is that The Attention Whore isn’t at the club to drink or to hook up (though it often happens) – her main goal is to see and be seen.

It is the attention of the masses that drives The Attention Whore. She will, consciously or subconsciously, always find herself in optimal settings for good pictures. She has an arsenal of poses at her disposal that she is always ready to whip out whenever a camera or phone appears. She’s also just as likely to be the one taking pictures, as long as she is in them.

The Attention Whore most likely considers herself a ‘social media influencer’ or ‘promoter’ or something like that. She may hold a secondary job such as a part-time model or a barista, but that is only to pay the bills until she hits it big. Her InstaFaceTweetPlus is her main focus, and she will take thousands of pictures for one good one. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, as her focus on physical appearances will also lead to her having a higher standard of beauty for herself. Being with her will certainly lend you a certain amount of social capital from the halo effect as well.

What’s going on players? Hope you’re all enjoying the Coronapocalypse and staying in! It’s a good time to read some books and work on improving our minds.

Yesterday I was reading a Robert Kiyosaki book and he mentioned something that caught my interest. He said that he had attended a seminar on goal setting years ago, and the instructor had taught them the phrase, “Be, Do, Have.” In the book, he touches on the concept briefly so I’m going to go a bit deeper with it here and explain how it relates to you and game.

He said that everybody wants to have something. In order to have that thing, they want to know what to do. However, most people don’t understand that in order to do that thing successfully, one must be the type of person who will do that thing.

He gives an example of someone wanting to lose weight – what they want to have. They know they need to diet and exercise – what they have to do. But because do not accept the personality and mindset shift required – the be element – they ultimately go back to their bad habits and fail at their weight loss goals.

This was a bit of a side note to make a larger point more in scope to that book, but it struck me as especially meaningful. This concept is a huge part of getting better with women and improving yourself overall. I’ve actually been teaching this concept for years, but I never had such a succinct way of explaining it before.

Be, Do, Have – The Player’s Edition

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QUICK STATS

Who is The Attention Whore?

Be, Do, Have – The Player’s Edition